​Do you think of limits as putting a brake on your freedom? Consider speed limits. Does driving the speed limit make you less free? You are free to disregard those laws at the risk of being fined or jailed. And we sometimes forget that we did make an agreement to obey the law when we applied for a license to drive! ​Since I ​

Have you ever had a breakdown in your relationships? Sometimes you just want to avoid the breakdown and make it go away and miss the opportunity that it offers while it’s happening. 

I’ve often talked about breakdowns into breakthroughs in business. I encourage managers to actively use failures​ as