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4 WAYS NOT TO FALL OFF A CURB

Uplifting Moments

I fell off a curb.

Done in by 6 inches of concrete.

On the ground surrounded by emergency workers I wondered what happened. A split second before, I was walking briskly towards a trash can to deposit refuse from my car, before I went for a run along a beach path that is both familiar and routine.

I didn’t trip or fall gracefully. It was blunt, head smacking, bruised ribs, and ankle fracturing! A momentary lapse of awareness, and the ER Dr. said, “No running for 6 weeks.”

So while I was waiting for the walking cast that I’m to wear for the next 6 weeks, the following ways not to fall off a curb danced through my head with no restraining casts on their unique ideas.

  1. Pay attention to where your feet are taking you. Steps, curbs, paths, twists or turns, your attention shouldn’t be so far ahead of you that you neglect where you are.
  2. Enjoy each moment as it presents itself. Don’t be in a hurry to get to where you’re going as if the fun only starts at that future moment in time. Savor the moment.
  3. Watch your urges. Experiment with not always being the first one out the door, and down the path. Slow down. Start where you are.
  4. Take a deep breath at the beginning of each activity. Breathing creates space so you can see the edges of your thinking and your environment. You may begin to notice when your thoughts are going in one direction, and your body is going in another.
When life presents itself as falling off a curb, you’ve already missed the signals that the curb was there. Let the moment sit with you. Whatever you needed to learn you learned in the fall.

You can’t anticipate every fall. But when you do fall, don’t use it as an excuse to stop. I’ll keep running when I get the OK, and I’ll use this as an opportunity to notice where I put my attention and awareness moment by moment.

My love goes with you as you work with this Uplifting Moment.


5 comments (Add your own)

1. Gael Grove wrote:
not THIS hit me right on!!! just as I was JUMPING up to go get ready for the office meeting! Now I will take a breath first! thank you!

August 2, 2011 @ 6:48 AM

2. Anne Jung wrote:
This is so me. I get these reality wake up calls every now and then.
The day before leaving for Omaha I was in a rush (didn't need to be) and I went through a yellow light that turned red and camera flashed. I found out no tickets were being issued becasue of a court action so I vowed to take it easy and not be rushed. I have nothing that important. It was just stupid.
Please keep us informed of your progress.

August 2, 2011 @ 6:54 AM

3. Paulette wrote:
Ah, such wisdom. My friend Wally Arnold responded that "the space between experience and reflection is near instantaneous." That was evident in what happened to me and both of you. Thanks for your messages!

August 2, 2011 @ 11:56 AM

4. Wayne wrote:
Darn! :(

It seems to me that if ( a huge "if" here) there is any lesson in this it would be thus:

You fell off the curb. <-----period. Next?

August 3, 2011 @ 6:55 AM

5. Paulette Sun Davis wrote:
LOL ... Yes indeed! I thought about making #5 "Sometimes falling off a curb is just falling off a curb" but it wouldn't have related to the title! But in the spirit of not overdoing the meaning ... I'm moving on ... albeit ... a little bit slower.

August 4, 2011 @ 7:14 AM

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